How Mary changed the dating game and is now thriving
If you’re waiting until you’re “ready”, are afraid that it won’t work for you, or that it’s not worth investing in yourself, Mary’s story is for you.
Watch the video to hear all about Mary’s journey.
Learn how she went from doubting herself and giving up on love to reigniting her inner fire and dating with aliveness and magnetism.
It has been so inspiring to work with Mary and see how she completely changed the game in dating and love.
“Dating and relationships just felt like work. It felt like such a burden. And for me, it was so closely associated with sadness because I so desperately wanted to be in this relationship.”
“And I kept trying to understand, ‘What's going on? What's wrong with me? What am I doing wrong?”
“I tried all of the things that my friends tried and were successful at meeting people in clubs, meeting people on the internet, meeting people at work. All of these things I had the opportunity to do it just didn't work for me.”
“There was so much sadness in my association with relationships, I didn't enjoy it. I didn't enjoy putting myself out there and putting myself in those positions, despite constantly being told that, "That's the way you meet someone", because it never was successful.”
“I think by the time we had met, I'd lost hope. And I was very much like, I just don't think that it is ever going to happen to me.”
The catalyst that inspired Mary to say YES to coaching.
“The moment of change happened when we spoke. I think it was like a 15 minute phone call and over the 15 minutes, I was able to feel it and tangibly – to feel what it would be like to be in that relationship. And to have that thing I've desired for so many years of my life. And to just hold on to it for even in that first session, just a minute. I said "Yes" because I wanted to hold on to that. And I wanted to live in that.”
Like most people who feel they have tried everything Mary also had doubts about coaching.
“I had all of the hesitations and all of the doubts, because I just kept thinking, I've done so many things before – I've been to therapy, I've tried speed dating, I've tried all of these other random different ways to meet people like Meetup groups, I've gone on every single type of dating app there is.”
“I had all of the hesitations being, what else can I really do? How is this going to really make a difference?”
During our first session, Mary already began feeling the shift she was looking for.
“After our first session, I think it just felt easy, because I felt like I'd released something and something switched on inside me. And I felt like the process had begun. “
Working on worthiness is such a big piece of the puzzle and a big ‘aha’ moment for Mary.
“I felt I could visualise it. But it didn't feel like it was my story. When I started to feel like that connection happened, where it was like I was living my life, and I was on this journey myself was when we were going through the ladder, and the worthiness scale.”
“That for me was a game changer moment because I physically felt different.”
“And then by the end of that session, taking those steps was such a big, big step for me. But at the end, I was there and I was like, yeah, of course I deserve Love absolutely bloody ten. That was definitely the biggest turning point and the first biggest turning point on this journey.”
Mary knew coaching was working when a whole world full of men sat up and noticed.
“I felt that I have this energy, this power inside of me.”
“I turned around and I just I just clocked this guy and he literally turned around. He turned around! And he did a double take. Then on the other side of the street, there's this guy who turns around and does exactly the same thing.”
“And I was like, what on earth is happening? And I go Pret and this guy opens the door and say's, ‘After you’ and I was like seriously what is going on. I was like, ‘What on earth is happening?’ Same thing happens. I leave prep and then this guy opens the door for me. And I get upstairs, I put my stuff down.”
“I was just like, "Oh my god, I think it's working". I actually think it's working.”
Why Mary recommends the Unlock Love coaching programme
“I'm physically the same person but I think it's like I've had a complete overhaul internally and then who I project out into the world is someone completely different.”
“The journey that we've been on over the last few months has taken me ten years to get to from where I was before. Seeing what happiness, seeing what joy feels like is just, I feel so, so powerful and so different. And it's such a journey to go on.”
“It truly is one of the best things I've chosen to do.”
If you also feel like you’ve tried everything and just want to give up, please don’t. Stories like Mary’s show us what’s possible when we have faith and courage and do the work.
I would love to see you experience the same results as Mary has, let’s have a call to see how I can help you create the love you have been looking for all this time.
Start your journey by taking the next right step towards love today.