It’s time to transition from a partnership that ‘works’ to one of profound passion and emotional connection.
This is high-depth coaching designed to turn your relationship into a source of joy and erotic connection, well beyond logistical success.
Cultivating a High-Depth Relationship
You are experts at managing your world—it’s time to become experts at returning to each other.
You’ve navigated the complexities of a big life with grace and precision—but behind closed doors, the connection that should be your sanctuary feels impossibly fragile.
You might recognize yourself here:
❋ Everything's great except the sex.You're compatible in so many ways: shared values, similar goals, you genuinely like each other. But the sex is infrequent, awkward, or has lost its spark. You thought it would get better over time or matter less but, it's creating a distance you can't ignore.
❋ The same arguments on endless repeat.Whether it's about parenting, money, household responsibilities, or intimacy you've had this fight dozens of times and nothing ever resolves. You can predict exactly what your partner will say before they say it.
❋ Life transitions are straining everythingA new baby or IVF, a career change, aging parents—what should have brought you closer has revealed cracks you didn't know were there. You're navigating massive change while feeling utterly disconnected from the one person who's supposed to be your partner in it.
❋ Mismatched desire creates debilitating tension. One of you wants more, the other feels pressured. The rejection stings. The guilt weighs heavy. You've stopped initiating because you can't handle another "not tonight." Or you dread being asked yet again for something you’re not wanting to give.
You're not failing.
You're caught in patterns that even brilliant, self-aware people struggle to break on their own.
Here’s What’s Possible
Instead of feeling that familiar tightness in your chest, you feel warmth, ease and excitement when your partner comes towards you.
This is what shifts when couples work with me:
❋ Your sexual connection comes back to life.Not just the mechanics, but the desire, the playfulness, the sense of being truly wanted. You rediscover each other's bodies. You talk about sex without shame. You create intimacy that feeds both of you—physically, emotionally, spiritually.
❋ Communication becomes a bridge instead of a battlefield.You say hard things with care and hear difficult truths without defensiveness. You repair quickly when you misunderstand. You trust that tough conversations will bring you closer, not tear you apart.
❋ You face life's challenges as actual partners.When stress hits, you turn toward each other instead of away. You have practices and tools that help you weather storms together rather than being torn apart by them.
❋ You remember why you chose each other. The qualities that first drew you together become visible again. You see your partner with fresh eyes. And crucially, you see yourself more clearly too.
❋ You stop having the same fight over and over.You finally understand what you're actually fighting for beneath the surface arguments. You hear the longing under the criticism, the fear beneath the anger. From that understanding, you find new ways forward.
This isn't about achieving some perfect relationship ideal. It's about building something real, resilient, and deeply satisfying—a partnership that grows with you.
Methodology
Traditional therapy lives in your head, but your relationship blocks live in your body as well.
This work targets the nervous system—transforming how you instinctively react to your partner.
We not only "analyse" the friction, we resolve it by creating the sustainable shifts that talk therapy alone rarely reaches.
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My style is honest, direct and compassionate. We move past blame to get at underlying dynamics and individual responsibility. If I see patterns harming your relationship, I'll name them clearly. This isn't about blame—it's about taking responsibility for your part so you can actually change it.
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Unlike traditional therapists who avoid the specifics, I'm trained to work with sexual disconnection, desire discrepancy, and maximizing pleasure. We don't just talk about your sex life—we work on it with practical techniques you can use together or alone.
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I help you change the dance of circular arguments, not just understand it. Understanding is useful, but insufficient. You need new embodied skills your nervous system can access in heated moments. We practice these in sessions and between meetings, building new neural pathways that make healthier relating feel natural.
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Many struggles have roots in past experiences. I'm specially trained to recognise and work with trauma sensitively, creating safety for healing.
Coaching for Couples
Bespoke, high-touch coaching designed for couples.
Sessions are tailored entirely to your goals
Guided practices and exercises between sessions
Direct access to me for accountability and support
Personalised resources curated specifically for you
90 minute immersive to gain clarity on one specific challenge keeping you stuck
Three 75-minute sessions to identify and begin to shift what's blocking you from love
Six 75 minute immersive sessions. In between-session support for sustainable change
Twelve 75 minute sessions for complete rewiring—for the deepest, most lasting shifts
Flexible payment plans available for all programs.
I believe this work should be accessible. I offer a limited number of reduced-rate spots each quarter for those experiencing financial hardship. Scholarship inquiries are welcome—let's talk.
Special circumstances
If one partner is hesitant or unavailable, I can work with the partner who is ready while creating opportunities for the reluctant partner to join when they're comfortable.
Let’s talk about what that looks like.
For couples navigating separation, I offer conscious uncoupling support to help you end your partnership with dignity, clarity, and minimal harm—especially important when children are involved
Questions You Might Have
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This is incredibly common—usually one partner initiates while the other agrees reluctantly. I address this directly in our first session. Sometimes the hesitant partner becomes fully engaged once they feel heard rather than blamed. Other times, we explore what conditions would make them willing to invest. And yes, I can work with just one partner if needed; when one person changes how they show up in the relationship, the entire dynamic shifts.
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There are three key differences: First, I'm specifically trained in sexual intimacy—we can directly address your sex life, which many therapists avoid. Second, my approach is more directive and action-oriented; we focus on building new skills and creating tangible shifts, not just gaining insight. Third, I work with the body and nervous system, not just talking about problems.
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If previous therapy focused primarily on understanding your past or processing emotions without giving you relevant, practical tools for changing your patterns, this will feel very different. We certainly explore underlying dynamics, but the emphasis is on creating new experiences in your relationship starting now. You'll leave each session with specific practices to implement, and we track measurable progress.
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Generally yes, especially initially. However, there are times when individual sessions are valuable—to address personal issues (past trauma, individual therapy needs) or to work with one partner when the other isn't ready. We'll discuss what configuration makes most sense for your specific situation.
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That's okay. Couples coaching isn't about forcing you to stay together—it's about helping you make conscious, intentional decisions about your relationship. Whether that means deepening your commitment, restructuring your partnership, or separating with respect and clarity, I can support you. Some of my most meaningful work has been helping couples end their relationships consciously and compassionately.
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Typical couples work with me for 3-6 months for significant transformation. Some couples do focused work on specific issues in 3 sessions. Others continue longer for ongoing support through life transitions. We'll assess progress regularly and adjust as needed.
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Absolutely. Sexual disconnection is one of my primary specializations. Whether you're dealing with mismatched desire, performance concerns, recovering intimacy after infidelity, or simply wanting to deepen your erotic connection, this is territory I'm trained and comfortable navigating. Unlike many relationship therapists, I have extensive training in sex and intimacy coaching specifically.
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Betrayal is devastating and rebuilding trust requires specialized support. I work with many couples recovering from affairs or broken trust. The work is challenging but absolutely possible if both partners are committed to the repair process. We'll address the practical, emotional, and relational dimensions of healing.
About me
After years leading global design and innovation teams, I realised that professional success is hollow without deep personal connection. I’ve spent the last decade mastering what I now teach: how to build a relationship that is both secure and erotic, and how to lead with power without losing heart.
My methodology is backed by over 1,200 hours of specialised certification in somatic intimacy and relational intelligence backed by neuroscience. Trained in the principles of Terry Real, Esther Perel, Layla Martin and many others, I bridge the gap between modern psychology and ancient taoist and tantric traditions.
I don’t just work on communication with you; I work with your whole system–mind, body, spirit, energy, and emotions. By integrating trauma-informed techniques with body-based practices, I help you rewire your emotional patterns and revitalize your erotic connection at the root.
Because lasting change and lasting relationships depend on it.
Ready to Begin?
Book Your Exploration Call - £50
30 minutes to see if we're the right fit
Book a consultation call and we'll spend 30 minutes exploring where you are, where you want to be, and whether this work is right for you. No pressure. No sales pitch. Just an honest conversation about what's possible.
Something in you knows it's time.
Your partnership doesn't have to be a source of stress, disappointment, or resignation. It can be what first drew you together and more—deeper, more honest, more alive.
The patterns keeping you stuck aren't your fault, but breaking them does require intentional work. Work that's so much easier with expert guidance.