You can only be confident in your sexiness – truly confident – if you know your body inside and out.
And self-pleasure is possibly THE best way to do that.
Imagine that you trusted your body completely, that you knew exactly what she wanted and needed at any time, and that you felt safe in your own sexiness. I'm talking about YOU being in charge here, no one else.
Would that make you feel confident in dating? Hell yes!
Would that make you feel confident in bed? That's another hell yes!! (Even got 2 exclams)
And that confidence radiates into your whole life.