Long-term love is a wonderful thing…MOST of the time, however it does take both attention (the energy of focus) and intention (the energy of transformation) to keep love fresh and alive over time.
3 ways to open up to pleasure – feel more, be more, love more
3 keys to making love last
Present-moment possibility – building the bridge to making our deepest desires a reality
How to create more love in your life
Middle life, you're lookin' sexy – making the shift
Marking the turn into mid-life for me is only just taking shape and form. Rituals for moving through the different seasons of life are with us no longer. And yet they would serve us well. As they help us to let go of the safety of where we have been – and have outgrown. And prepare for and leverage the opportunities of the new space we’re moving into.
What truly determines happiness in relationships isn't whether you fight or not – it's this
What truly matters in determining the happiness and resilience of a relationship is not that we never disagree, or mess up in ways that cause us to lose connection. It’s this…
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The 4 Attachment styles: Discover yours – and change it
Can you really 'have it all' in love?
3 simple ways to experience more healthy blissful pleasure daily
6 ways to feel more feminine – connect with the Queen within
Love abroad: 6 ways to date internationally whether you are home or away
5 ways to be single on Valentine’s that actually feel good
Modern Love = Closeness + Distance. How to manage the paradox of intimacy
You don't have to lose your independence (or power) to be in a relationship
How the stories you tell yourself keep you from love – and how to change that
Are the stories you tell about your experiences in dating and relationships empowering? Or do they limit you. Stories are our lifeblood as humans. Through stories we recount how things are and have been. And then use these stories, this information to form guidelines for predicting – and thus creating – our future. Learn how to create the future that you want to live in love by writing a new story for yourself. And about the recent findings in neuroscience that back it all up. For real.
If you feel out of practice in the bedroom, here’s how to boost your confidence
All about lube Part 2 - What is the right kind to use when
How to talk about sex in a new relationship
If you want to have good sex – to give pleasure and receive it – you need to communicate both your own wants, needs, and desires to your partner, and to ask them what works for them as well.
The myth that someone should just be able to ‘feel into you’ and if they can hit all your spots, they must be ‘the right one’ needs to die.
How to tell if a man is emotionally available
If you know anything about attachment theory which offers great insight into how we love, then you’ll know that people with the Avoidant style of attachment are not emotionally available.
In fact, these so-called ‘Avoidants’ avoid emotional closeness like the plague – hence the name. And if you want an intimate relationship where you feel deep connection with the person you are with, you might want to be aware of whether he’s up for it or not.