If you want to have good sex – to give pleasure and receive it – you need to communicate both your own wants, needs, and desires to your partner, and to ask them what works for them as well.
The myth that someone should just be able to ‘feel into you’ and if they can hit all your spots, they must be ‘the right one’ needs to die.
Marking the turn into mid-life for me is only just taking shape and form. Rituals for moving through the different seasons of life are with us no longer. And yet they would serve us well. As they help us to let go of the safety of where we have been – and have outgrown. And prepare for and leverage the opportunities of the new space we’re moving into.
What truly matters in determining the happiness and resilience of a relationship is not that we never disagree, or mess up in ways that cause us to lose connection. It’s this…
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If you want to have good sex – to give pleasure and receive it – you need to communicate both your own wants, needs, and desires to your partner, and to ask them what works for them as well.
The myth that someone should just be able to ‘feel into you’ and if they can hit all your spots, they must be ‘the right one’ needs to die.
