If you want to have good sex – to give pleasure and receive it – you need to communicate both your own wants, needs, and desires to your partner, and to ask them what works for them as well.
The myth that someone should just be able to ‘feel into you’ and if they can hit all your spots, they must be ‘the right one’ needs to die.
If you know anything about attachment theory which offers great insight into how we love, then you’ll know that people with the Avoidant style of attachment are not emotionally available.
In fact, these so-called ‘Avoidants’ avoid emotional closeness like the plague – hence the name. And if you want an intimate relationship where you feel deep connection with the person you are with, you might want to be aware of whether he’s up for it or not.
Tantra is a vast and beautiful tradition. And one I have been a part of for many years.
Tantra changed my life. It re-framed what it meant for me to be a woman, powerful and sexual at the same time.
It freed me to open to deeper states of pleasure. And to know myself like I’d never before.
And it has the potential to do the same for you.
I was so happy with my life, that I started to doubt whether I even wanted to be in a relationship.
Being single was great for me in so many ways. And even helped to prepare me for the beautiful relationship I’m in now.
It was when I decided that I was done being single, and the years kept dragging on and on that it became difficult.
Understand how being single is great if you decide to stay single. And how it can help prepare you for a healthy relationship, if you decide you want one.
Every time you meet a guy who’s perfectly nice, you just don’t feel it. He’s just too nice.
If this is you, you might be keeping yourself from creating a healthy relationship – one that is not only sexy, exciting and alive – but also stands the test of time. Here’s what might be going on.
And what to do instead.
Now more than ever, men and women are coming to me looking to find Love with a capital ‘L’. Love that lights them on fire. Love that is long-term, healthy, and exciting.
And this means that now is a time when more people are open to meeting their person. Which means more possibility for you to connect with another in a deeply meaningful way.
Learn how to overcome fear and resistance so you can enjoy dating and love in the age of Covid.
